FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Presented by Lady Layla

Monogamous relationship

Firstly all couples should understand the biology of human beings and their natural instincts. In a monogamous relationship it is important to meet the sexual needs of each partner if a happy relationship is to thrive. It is often forgotten that human beings are animals.

Male masturbation is almost universally accepted. Men wank and we all know it. Female masturbation is less so. The female orgasm is just as important as the male orgasm and women should be given the time and space to achieve it. Sextoys are almost mandatory for women. 

The truth

The truth is that men are not designed to satisfy women. They are designed to just get their semen inside a woman so as to fertilise her. It is in mans nature to have sex with every woman that he can in order to produce the maximum number of offspring – Just like a bull in a field of cows. Basically, it’s nothing to do with her pleasure but it is just designed to get her pregnant. The natural instinct for men totally ignores the need for the female orgasm.

The mans constant need for sex is something that the woman should always bear in mind. A man needs sex a lot and the woman in his life should cater for his needs in this regard. In other words – If he wants it then oblige him or at least give him a blowjob.

On the other hand women are not designed to be satisfied by one man but are designed to have sex with a lot of partners in each session. This ensures that they will be impregnated by the man with the strongest sperm resulting in superior offspring. It is in a womans nature to have sex with as many men as possible at the same time. 

Climax

Women take a much longer time than men to climax although many fake it. Men cum in general in 5 minutes or less and women need to it to last for around twenty minutes to reach an orgasm. It follows that the womans needs are not being met. To give the woman what she needs the man in her life should always spend a lot of time exciting her prior to penetration. Plenty of foreplay and the use of sextoys will bring her to a degree of excitement where the following intercourse could meet her needs. Alternatively, they should bring in other men for extra help. Women need an orgasm as well as men so every effort should be made to cater for that. 

The point is that couples need to go that extra mile to ensure that the relationship thrives. That’s why our FOOD FOR THOUGHT blog takes a deep dive into monogamous relationships and pleasure.