GETTING THE BEST FROM YOUR SEX TOYS

GETTING THE BEST FROM YOUR SEX TOYS

Written by Lady Layla of ladylayla.co.uk

Sex toys can be used either alone or with a partner in order to increase the pleasure when having sex.

ALONE (MASTURBATION)

SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEX TOYS

When masturbating, privacy is often desirable, as is a relaxed atmosphere. Often, a bedroom is the ideal location when alone. Most women prefer dimmed lights or even darkness.

Some women prefer further stimulation. Watching oneself in a mirror or watching or listening to porn can all help.

Of course, none of these external stimuli may help at all. It is all down to personal preferences – Whatever floats your boat.

PREPARATION

We need to get the best from our sex toy when masturbating but how is this achieved?

Sex when alone can mirror that with a partner in that initially a certain amount of preparation is required. This is called foreplay.

When having sex with a partner most women have parts of their bodies that are particularly sensitive. It is no different when getting excited using a sex toy;

Your upper legs could be sensitive or your stomach or your face. For most women the breasts are very sensitive and they enjoy getting their nipples sucked.

A vibrator can give pleasure to many parts of the body. There are also sex toys that suck so use one of them on your breasts and nipples.

So come on. Turn yourself on prior to the main event.

REQUIRED SEX TOYS

Everyone has their own favourite sex toy but the use of multiple toys is recommended. At the very least a toy that vibrates and one that sucks should be available.

AREAS OF CONCENTRATION

Once a person is totally relaxed and stimulated it is time to proceed further.

This is where certain specific areas need the most attention.

BREASTS

There are very few women who don’t enjoy their breasts being played with and their nipples being sucked.

Therefore, a vibrating sextoy used all over the breasts and finally concentrating on the nipple area should be followed by suction on the nipples.

CLITORIS

This should be the most sensitive area of a womans body.

As with the nipples, applied vibration and suction can be mind blowing and result in an orgasm.

G-SPOT.

This is a very sensitive area inside the vagina. The exact location varies from woman to woman but in general it is on the front wall of the vagina around 1 or 2 inches inside. Stimulation of this area could be the final piece of the jigsaw.

FINALE ON SEX TOYS

By the time that each of these stages have been completed it is time for that orgasm.

It is time for the use of a vibrater or dildo.

It is time to ‘Fuck yourself’ HAPPY ORGASMS

WITH A PARTNER

Sextoys are an important part of sex with a partner.

WITH ANOTHER WOMAN

Women do not have to be lesbians in order to enjoy sex with another woman. It might be suggested that all women should experience this, as that other woman knows exactly what it is that will turn you on. There is the added advantage that you can return the favour.

Sex toys can be used in exactly the same way as during masturbation with the added bonuses of fingers and her tongue.

So lie back and let another woman bring you to climax – You will love it.

WITH A MAN

Most women enjoy what is often referred to as ‘A bloody good fucking’ The emphasis should, however, be on good.

Whilst he is pleasuring you in the same way as previously described, he could get overexcited. This could mean that the final act could be a little short.

One way around this is to watch him masturbate whilst gently playing with yourself. If he cums early on he is more likely to last for a much longer time when it comes to servicing you.

A lot of women say that they don’t like porn but it has been scientificall proved that watching a man masturbate excites over 85% of women.

Alternatively, the woman could help her partner by using her hands and mouth to bring him off.

Only then can he begin to work on the woman in the manner previously described.

Having the man cum early on in the proceedings does not work for older men as a repeat performancwe is generally not on the cards.

WITH THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

Nothing changes with regard to the proceedings. Having said that, sex with someone special is often more fulfilling. The only problem is that it often all becomes routine and there is less concentration on the necessary foreplay. Sex toys are essential in such cases and other sources of stimulation may be necessary.

Whatever is decided – Keep it exciting and keep it fulfilling.

CONCLUSION

Good sex is an important part of life and sex toys are essential for good sex.

Try different types to see which suit you best and simply experience better orgasms.

A sexually satisfied person is a happier person.

Go for it.