A BEGINNERS GUIDE TO SEX TOYS: WHERE TO START AND WHAT TO KNOW

To all ladies out there, be they single or married, let’s talk sex toys.

This is your first sex toy and it is a good idea to get it right. Getting it right means that the sex toy is right for you. It should be the one that turns you on best and results, whenever possible, in orgasms. Your chosen sex toy should be one that makes you want to go to bed and be desperate for a solo sex session. The one you choose (your favourite!) should basically give you the best sex ever.

Before considering the best options, two other considerations are vital.

The best options

Firstly, the sex toy has to be ‘Body Safe’. Cheaper sex toys can contain such things as Parabens and Phthalates, which are harmful to health. Parabens are believed to disrupt hormone function. They act like oestrogen and too much oestrogen can cause an increase in cell division and the growth of tumours. Parabens have been linked to breast cancer. More work is needed to fully establish the effect of Phthalates. Some phthalates have been linked with cancer and it is a possibility that they affect development and reproduction. So, to be on the safe side, it is best to avoid both of them. Purchase a ‘Body Safe’ product.

Secondly, the sex toy should be easy to clean. It should always be made from non-porous materials such as silicone. It is vital that sex toys are kept clean and your choice should be easily cleaned simply by using water and a mild hand soap. Should the toy be made of the right non-porous material, this should be enough. So clean it, dry it and keep it in a dust-free environment.

All about lubricants

Before moving on to the choice of a sex toy it is a good idea to consider lubricants. Not everyone needs lubricant, but for many, it increases the pleasure. These enhance the pleasure by making insertion easier and they reduce friction whilst not limiting sensation. When using a lubricant with a sex toy, a water-based lubricant is the best choice. They are body-safe and do not affect the surface of the toy.

One last point – It is important that vibrators are not used by anyone under the age of eighteen or by virgins or indeed by anyone who has little experience of masturbating without the use of sex toys. In such cases the experience could be painful.

The use of vibrators should not be limited to masturbation. Assuming the couple are a man and a woman, it is very unlikely that the woman will be satisfied without serious amounts of foreplay. Sextoys can be helpful in that, when the man uses them on a woman, they can bring her to the necessary heights of excitement prior to the sex act itself. Should a woman still not have reached her climax after sex, a vibrator can be used to ‘Finish the job’ and to give her the orgasm that she deserves.

BEGINNERS GUIDE TO SEX TOYS – YOUR CHOICE OF SEX TOY

Simple dildos used to be universally used and some ladies still prefer them. They are often penis shaped –

However,  in the modern world, it must be a vibrator of some description. But what kind of vibrator? There must be thousands of options

FIRSTLY there is the Dildo type vibrator. These can be any size. For most beginners a 5 inch to 7 inch vibrator is ample. They are simply designed to replicate the penis.They can be smooth or ridged or have any kind of design. This is an example.

They stimulate the whole of the vagina with no selection of sensitive areas,

All about the G-spot

SECONDLY, there are vibrators designed to seek out and stimulate the G-spot. There has been some discussion as to whether the G-spot actually exists. Be that as it may, most women do seem to find a location that has increased sensitivity. These vibrators can locate that spot by trial and error.

The Clitoris

THIRDLY – The most sensitive location is the clitoris.

Many women use their fingers to stimulate this whilst enjoying the benefits of a simple vibrator. However, one of the most popular vibrators is the rabbit.

To Conclude

This works to excite the whole of the vagina whilst also paying attention to the clitoris. Women the world over love their rabbits.

To conclude the blog ‘BEGINNERS GUIDE TO SEX TOYS’, as the clitoris is so very sensitive, a sextoy concentrating on that is a must. Most women love a partner ‘Going Down’ on them – Basically, placing their head between their legs and both licking and sucking their clitoris. All vibrators can be used to concentrate on a womans clitoris but these perfectly mimic the actions that a partner can offer and will suck it until the heights of excitement are reached.

There must be thousands of variations of these simple examples and, no doubt, eventually personal preferences will come to the fore. But a beginner should keep it simple and try a few basic toys. It will be the beginning of a journey into bliss. From there, personal preferences can be investigated and become part of everyday life.

S0 enjoy masturbation and enjoy sex – THEY ARE GOOD FOR YOU.